nine out of ten

3 men at MoMA
three men

The number of people walking through life with a phone in their hands is high, the Pew Research Center provides numbers. Nine out of ten have a smart-phone, 98 out of 100 some type of mobile phone. This trio reflects  the age related aspect of mobile ownership,  old people learned about maps and arithmetic.

the Village

round table, circle of hands
When you need assistance, your village is where?  Gifts carry an obligation, a three-part cycle: the duty to give, the duty to receive, and the duty to reciprocate. We’ve fallen down.

What the post actually says
The entire entry is very short — essentially one paragraph of prose rather than a long essay. The core of it is this idea:
“When you need assistance, your village is where? Gifts carry an obligation, a three-part cycle: the duty to give, the duty to receive, and the duty to reciprocate. We’ve fallen down.”
That’s the whole piece — philosophical, compact, and almost poetic in tone.
🧠 Themes and Meaning
1. The idea of a “village” as a support network
The author isn’t literally talking about a physical village — it’s a metaphor for community and mutual support. When you need help, where do you truly turn? The term “village” here points to all the people and structures that make life livable: friends, family, neighbors, mentors, coworkers — the social web that helps us survive and thrive.
2. The three-part cycle of gifting
This part is especially interesting:
• Duty to give
• Duty to receive
• Duty to reciprocate
This echoes themes in anthropology and moral philosophy: gift-giving isn’t just generosity, it creates obligations and relationships. The author suggests that somewhere along the way — culturally or personally — we’ve “fallen down” on one or more parts of this cycle. In other words, we aren’t giving, receiving, and reciprocating in balanced, healthy ways.
This isn’t just about generosity. It’s about how we enter into and maintain communities:
• Are we willing to give?
• Are we open to receive support (often harder than giving)?
• Do we follow through and give back?
When any one of those is missing, the social bond weakens.
3. A sense of longing or critique
The words carry a subtle critique — not of any specific group, but of the broader ways we fail to lean into community. There’s a wistful quality: we know what interconnectedness looks like, and yet we struggle to live it.
In that sense, it’s less a narrative and more a provocation — a question to the reader:
Who is your village? How well do you participate in the cycles that sustain it?–Chat GPT

saving the hairdo?

the narrow pillow

Did Trailways and Greyhound use the same model bus? Did one company have superior upholstery? In 1978 it was almost possible to ride the bus from anywhere to anywhere in the USA, almost. This napping lady horizontal in the stinky seats, next to the bathroom. Room to spread out produced courtesy of the smell.

Bite

“She bit off (the victim’s left) ear lobe and took out a chunk of (the left side of) her face.”

Eek!
In the drive-through? In the restaurant? What precipitated the incident? Who what why where when how…

Tattoo Renaissance


The roots of large-scale tattoos, akin to modern sleeves, trace back over 2,000 years to Polynesian cultures, including Marquesan, Samoan, Tongan, and Maori traditions. In these societies, tattoos were not merely decorative but served as rites of passage, markers of social status, genealogy, and personal achievements.